I'm coming at this the wrong way, apparently

Last night we dropped by my older brother's house for a barbeque. My sister in law made an amazing bowl of slaw with chipotle peppers, jicama, corn and some thai basil. My parents made some southern style red rice. I brought beans and Rhubarb Skies (thanks Carrie, they are delicious!). A very successful meal.

Later, on the way home, I asked my oldest what her favorite part of dinner was. "Not having to finish my rice," she says.